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A monk since childhood, the Dalai Lama has said that sex offers fleeting satisfaction and leads to trouble later, while chastity offers a better life and "more independence, more freedom".<ref>{{cite web|url= https://www.smh.com.au/world/sex-invariably-spells-trouble-says-dalai-lama-20081129-6n91.html |title= Sex invariably spells trouble, says Dalai Lama |work= [[The Sydney Morning Herald]] |date= November 29, 2008 |access-date= December 4, 2023 |archive-date= December 4, 2023 |archive-url= https://web.archive.org/web/20231204154946/https://www.smh.com.au/world/sex-invariably-spells-trouble-says-dalai-lama-20081129-6n91.html |url-status=live}}</ref> He has said that problems arising from conjugal life sometimes even lead to suicide or murder.<ref name=Teleg>{{cite news |author = GMT 2|url = https://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/newstopics/religion/3534994/Sexual-intercourse-spells-trouble-says-Dalai-Lama.html |archive-url = https://web.archive.org/web/20081203142210/http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/newstopics/religion/3534994/Sexual-intercourse-spells-trouble-says-Dalai-Lama.html |url-status = dead |archive-date = 3 December 2008 |title = Sexual intercourse spells trouble, says Dalai Lama |work = The Telegraph|date = 29 November 2008 |access-date = 2 May 2010|location=London}}</ref> He has asserted that all religions have the same view about adultery.<ref>{{cite web|url= https://golfweek.usatoday.com/2010/02/21/dalai-lama-says-self-discipline-important-woods/ |title= Dalai Lama says faith is important for Woods |author= [[Associated Press]] |work= [[Golfweek]] |date= February 21, 2010 |access-date= December 4, 2023 |archive-date= December 4, 2023 |archive-url= https://web.archive.org/web/20231204154053/https://golfweek.usatoday.com/2010/02/21/dalai-lama-says-self-discipline-important-woods/ |url-status=live}}<br/>{{cite web|url= https://www.thestar.com/sports/golf/tiger-who-dalai-lama-disses-golfer/article_f015a2c4-e3ee-5eea-bc32-5eb7a1fe8758.html |title= Tiger who? Dalai Lama disses golfer |work= [[Toronto Star]] |date= February 21, 2010 |access-date= December 4, 2023 |archive-date= December 4, 2023 |archive-url= https://web.archive.org/web/20231204154105/https://www.thestar.com/sports/golf/tiger-who-dalai-lama-disses-golfer/article_f015a2c4-e3ee-5eea-bc32-5eb7a1fe8758.html |url-status=live}}</ref> In his discussions of the traditional Buddhist view on appropriate sexual behaviour, he explains the concept of "right organ in the right object at the right time," which historically has been interpreted as indicating that oral, manual and anal sex (both homosexual and heterosexual) are not appropriate in Buddhism or for Buddhists. However, he also says that in modern times all common, consensual sexual practices that do not cause harm to others are ethically acceptable and that society should accept and respect people who are [[gay]] or [[transgender]] from a secular point of view.<ref>{{cite web|url=http://www.religioustolerance.org/hom_budd2.htm|title=Buddhism and homosexuality|website=religioustolerance.org|access-date=22 April 2015|archive-date=17 March 2021|archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20210317083002/https://www.religioustolerance.org/hom_budd2.htm|url-status=live}}</ref> In a 1994 interview with ''[[OUT Magazine]]'', the Dalai Lama clarified his personal opinion on the matter by saying, "If someone comes to me and asks whether [[homosexuality]] is okay or not, I will ask 'What is your companion's opinion?' If you both agree, then I think I would say, 'If two males or two females voluntarily agree to have mutual satisfaction without further implication of harming others, then it is okay.'"<ref>OUT Magazine February/March 1994</ref> However, when interviewed by Canadian TV news anchor [[Evan Solomon]] on ''[[CBC News: Sunday]]'' about whether homosexuality is acceptable in Buddhism, the Dalai Lama responded that "it is sexual misconduct".<ref>{{cite web|website=[[HuffPost]]|date=13 July 2009|title=Gay Marriage: What Would Buddha Do?|url=https://www.huffpost.com/entry/gay-marriage-what-would-b_b_230855|first=James|last=Shaheen|access-date=April 6, 2023|archive-date=April 6, 2023|archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20230406010916/https://www.huffpost.com/entry/gay-marriage-what-would-b_b_230855|url-status=live}}</ref> In his 1996 book ''Beyond Dogma'', he described a traditional Buddhist definition of an appropriate sexual act as follows: "A sexual act is deemed proper when the couples use the organs intended for sexual intercourse and nothing else ... Homosexuality, whether it is between men or between women, is not improper in itself. What is improper is the use of organs already defined as inappropriate for sexual contact."<ref>''Beyond Dogma'' by the Dalai Lama</ref> He elaborated in 1997, conceding that the basis of that teaching was unknown to him. He also conveyed his own "willingness to consider the possibility that some of the teachings may be specific to a particular cultural and historic context".<ref>"Dalai Lama Urges 'Respect, Compassion, and Full Human Rights for All', including Gays". Conkin, Dennis. ''Bay Area Reporter'', 19 June 1997.</ref> In 2006, the Dalai Lama has expressed concern at "reports of violence and discrimination against" [[LGBT people]] and urged "respect, tolerance and the full recognition of human rights for all".<ref>{{cite press release |url=http://ilga.org/ilga/en/article/782 |title=His Holiness The Dalai Lama Issues Statement in Support of Human Rights of Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgender People |publisher=International Lesbian and Gay Association (ILGA) |location=Geneva |date=3 April 2006 |access-date=20 November 2013 |url-status=dead |archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20130623030316/http://ilga.org/ilga/en/article/782 |archive-date=23 June 2013 }}</ref> In a 2014 interview with [[Larry King]], the Dalai Lama expressed that [[same-sex marriage]] is a personal issue, can be ethically socially accepted, and that he personally accepts it. However, he also stated that if same-sex marriage is in contradiction with one's chosen traditions, then they should not follow it.<ref>{{cite magazine|url= https://time.com/15273/watch-dalai-lama-says-okay-to-same-sex-marriages/ |title= WATCH: Dalai Lama Says 'O.K.' to Same-Sex Marriages |first= Dan |last= Kedmey |magazine= [[Time (magazine)|Time]] |date= March 7, 2014 |access-date= December 4, 2023 |archive-date= December 4, 2023 |archive-url= https://web.archive.org/web/20231204144419/https://time.com/15273/watch-dalai-lama-says-okay-to-same-sex-marriages/ |url-status=live}}<br/>{{cite web|url= https://abcnews.go.com/blogs/politics/2014/03/dalai-lama-says-he-supports-gay-marriage |title= Dalai Lama Says He Supports Gay Marriage |first= Jaime |last= Lutz |work= [[ABC News]] |date= March 8, 2014 |access-date= December 4, 2023 |archive-date= December 4, 2023 |archive-url= https://web.archive.org/web/20231204144359/https://abcnews.go.com/blogs/politics/2014/03/dalai-lama-says-he-supports-gay-marriage |url-status=live}}<br/>{{cite web|url= https://www.independent.co.uk/news/world/americas/dalai-lama-says-gay-marriage-is-ok-9175947.html |title= Dalai Lama says gay marriage is 'ok' |first= Antonia |last= Molloy |work= [[The Independent]] |date= March 7, 2014 |access-date= December 4, 2023 |archive-date= December 4, 2023 |archive-url= https://web.archive.org/web/20231204144621/https://www.independent.co.uk/news/world/americas/dalai-lama-says-gay-marriage-is-ok-9175947.html |url-status=live}}</ref> Summary: Please note that all contributions to Christianpedia may be edited, altered, or removed by other contributors. 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